Question: I’m tired of trying and starting not to care. Do nice guys really always finish last?
Answer: Maybe as a “nice guy” you are giving more than is being invested in you in return. You simply have to qualify the people in your life for what you have to give of yourself. Those special things about you aren’t meant to go to everyone or just any one. Also as a “nice guy” be sure you aren’t romanticizing situations to be what you’d like them to be versus what they really are (i.e. just because you want a girlfriend doesn’t mean every girl that interacts with you is willing to be your girlfriend).